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2nd June
2010
written by Sarah Loewen

I’ve been a single parent for quite some time, and so I have an idea how difficult it is to make exercise a priority when kids come first – as they should.  There are times when caring for our children trumps everything else, making it easy to forget taking care of ourselves can enable us to take better care of all those we love.

Sometimes it helps me to remember the spiel at the beginning of all flights. You know the one…

“In the unlikely event of depressurization, an oxygen mask will fall from the console directly above you…”  And always the flight attendant goes on to describe how if you are traveling with a small child, you should place your own mask on before assisting your child. 

It seems completely counter intuitive, but yet when you really think about it, its not. Your child needs you. I think taking care of your our own health, so we can better assist our children, and others we care about, is not as selfish as we sometimes think.

5 Comments

  1. 02/06/2010

    This is a funny, sage piece of advice that most of us don’t heed. Well put and well illustrated. It’s sad that we stop taking care of ourselves as caregivers. We forget even, at times, to be kind and nice to ourselves. Thanks for pointing this out, Sarah.

  2. 02/06/2010

    This was brilliant! I think of my kids all the time when I’m out there running, biking or swimming. I must take care of me so that I can take care of them. ALL parents – men and women should read this post and remember it.

  3. 02/06/2010

    Thanks Lori – me too, and congrats on your new domain and becoming a marathoner while remaining a dedicated mom. You are a great inspiration.

  4. 02/06/2010

    Thanks Katie. I think your point about being kind and nice to ourselves is important to. Especially given we tend to use fitness as a tool to whip ourselves into shape, instead of a way to treat ourselves.

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